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May 29, 2015


How is your sexlife?  REALLY, how is your sex life?

Relationship coach Nikeema Lee has asked this question a million times, in one-on-one coaching or in an auditorium full of people hungry for excitement.  Her latest book, Rockstar Sexlife, shows that she has delved into the lives of thousands and helped them turn the answer from a negative to a positive response.  I know she can do the same for you through Dr. Lee's Ultimate Guide To A Rockstar Sexlife.


Dr. Lee asks, has your sexlife fizzled and faded?  Maybe you're finding that sex is just not as satisfying as it used to be... This is the book for you.  Perhaps you are just looking for a few extra tools to add to your repertoir.  Again, this book is for you. 


Dr. Lee's Ultimate Guide to a Rockstar Sexlife is a powerful book that gives you a system to transform your current sexlife from boring to soa...

May 29, 2015


Leave a lingering scent for her.....

 For men and women when choosing a sexual partner, we discovered that above all other physical characteristics, women ranked a man's scent as the most important feature for determining whether she would be sexually interested in him.* How a man smelled was also much more important than any social status factor. And of all physical characteristics women preferred a man to be "better than average" in his body-odor than anything else. Women also found men who smelled great due to the fragrance they wore irresistible. In the words of one respondent: "If I'm with a guy who smells really good, nothing else about him seems to matter.


Cologne choice of the week is YSL also known as Yves Saint Laurent


A dandy must smell as good as he looks!



May 28, 2015

I've been asked about open relationships often as of late.  It got me thinking about it.  I'm currently in a monogamous relationship.  I have been in open relationships in the past.  An open relationship can work with the right people.  Honesty, security & heaps of communication must be involved.  I'm certainly far from an expert or experienced in this.  Officially, I've only been in one relationship that was labelled as an open relationship. Those of you who are please comment & add to the discussion. Certainly, there have been times when single that I chose to date more than one person non exclusively.  I was honest about the fact that there was more than one person I was dating at the time.  Some people were fine with it, others were not.  The one's who were not chose not to date me.  All is fair in love & dating.


Some people cann...

May 27, 2015

Simple rules to dressing like a gentleman.



Always unbotton suit jacket when sitting down.


May 27, 2015


frank advise on how to run a small business



Artist or business person?


As an artist people ask me how I am able to survive as an artist.  To survive as an artist you have to know how to run a business, the business of YOU.  Yes, it is a very difficult thing for most ARTISTS to understand, but in order for you to be a full-time artist you MUST know how to make money from your art.  So take a class on marketing, sign up for a few online business courses.   The more you know about business as an artist, the easier life will be. 


Art is difficult enough.  But these days being just an artist is not going to cut it.  You have to be PR, Marketer, CEO and accountant.


So it is not about either or, it is no longer a choice between two things.  Nowadays it is BOTH. - you have to be an artist and a business person.



May 27, 2015

Have you ever felt like there just aren't enough hours in a day to do everything you need to do for your job or family, let alone workout? Check out my top 3 tips for how to add more hours to your day :).


May 26, 2015

Everything tends to inspire me. It could be a song, a color, a great novel, the scent of a man, the way water feels against my skin....and especially a wonderful, provocative or inspiring quote. If it pleases you, enjoy some of my favorites quotes on sensuality, sexuality, eroticism, pleasure and desire.


Some people underestimate how EROTIC it is to be understood. ~ Mary Rakow in The Memory Room


SEXUAL energy is the primal and creative energy of the universe. ~ Deepak Chopra

I hunger to commit the act of TOUCH. ~ Margaret Atwood in The Handmaid’s Tale


SEXUALITY is the soul of the creative process and that EROTIC expression of any kind is a personal revolution. ~ Susie Bright in Full Exposure


The smartest thing to say to yourself when you encounter a style of SEXUALITY unknown to you–which may be frightening, offensive, or unimaginable–is to whisper a variat...

May 25, 2015

For the next 60 days I will be sharing a chapter a day of my first POP EROTICA novel.  Bang Bang Bang, A summer of sin in Brooklyn. 



Chapter Ten



They crawled out into the Brooklyn night.  The humidity was a perfect, thick sheet of summer pressed down from the darkened sky.  The night air was filled with desires and wants.  Everyone they passed seemed to be on the prowl.  They ran into a group of old friends and stood around for a few minutes talking about nothing.  They also decided that Mo’s was a good idea.  Mo’s was packed beyond any kind of human recognition.  Sardines would be an understatement.  Brenton squeezed his way through the crowd.  He ended up face to face with the redhead.  

   “Are you stalking me?” Brenton asked smiling as he rubbed up against her.
   “Not yet,” she said looking him up and down...

May 25, 2015


There’s something you should know about me. I wholeheartedly embrace who I am as a  goddess and a monster. I embrace the sacred and the profane. I embrace the sophisticated and the rachet. I, as a human being, as a woman, as a self described Siren, am not "one" type of person. I like mind blowing sex...that can involve making love or being fucked. I want it gentle and I want it hard. Shit, in the BDSM world, I’m even known as a Switch. (Google that or wait for those blog posts in the coming weeks!)



Therefore, in my holistic embodied way of living life, I’m constantly looking for ways to engage my spirit and my flesh. Hence, today's topic....this concept of “Chakra Sex.” 


A while back I was reading two books. One was titled, “Wheels of Life: A User’s Guide to the Chakra System.” I don’t remember the name of the other book but it had to do with sacred spiritual sexuality. Bo...

May 22, 2015

For the next 60 days I will be sharing a chapter a day of my first POP EROTICA novel.  Bang Bang Bang, A summer of sin in Brooklyn. 


Chapter Nine



Max was back at the Brooklyn Moon in less than five minutes.
   The evening was still young and there was a ton to catch up on and there were millions of drinks to be consumed, and God was somewhere watching.
   Max could still smell Amanda’s pussy on his fingertips.  The memories of her heart shaped ass propped up on that couch stayed with him; he played with his nose all night.  He did not want to get Amanda’s pussy out of his head.  
   “So what’s the plan for the night guys?” Mike asked wiping down the bar.
   “I don’t know, Mo’s later on,” Maurice answered.
   “Definitely Mo’s.”  Brenton seemed thrilled.
   “Mo’s?  Really?  Mo’s?”  Daren did not like the sound of it....

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