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June 9, 2016

The following is an excerpt of a letter sent to a Lover after he asked me, "What did I want our sex journey to be?" It took me a few months to think about, as it was the first time a lover asked the question in that way. After months of passionate bliss, after growing and loving and evolving with him, I finally answered his question. This is a real letter I sent to a lover, with a few personal tidbits taken out. It still contains personal details most probably wouldn't readily share but I think its important to also have these conversations out loud.In fact, I even posed the question to my friends on facebook to hear what they had to say and some of their responses are at the end. I imagine that although somethings will always remain the same for me regarding my personal sexual journey, no matter who my lover is, that also for every lover in my life, this letter would be different. I think...

June 4, 2016


Recently, I shared part one in the story of my threesome. It's time I share the rest of what happened once Beth introduced me to her husband Derek as his 40th Birthday gift, right before our dinner at Beauty and Essex.


Dinner was pretty standard. In the sense that we were at a restaurant and ate food. (It also happens to be one of my Top 10 Sexy Places to Dine in NYC). However, in retrospect, I wonder what those around us must have thought. After ordering nearly everything on the menu…. I do recommend everything on the menu,  Derek and Beth changed our seating arrangements. They wanted to sit in a booth. They wanted close proximity. SO they sat me between them, and they both scooted in real close to me. There was no space between us all. Unless they were eating, their hands were on me. The waitress raised an eyebrow but didn't ask questions.


“You're beautiful. I love your hair.”



June 2, 2016



What do you want your dating and love life to FEEL like? What is it that you want to EXPERIENCE?


I’ve come across quite a bit of jaded, exhausted, bitter, sad, hurting and/or bored people who are “tired” of dating. In fact, after breaking up with one lover and checking in with him, he said he was so tired of his repeated cycle that he might just marry the next woman who had all of her teeth, for simplicity sake.


I want to offer some food for thought and a perspective shift because I simply cannot imagine ever being tired of dating. DATING, to me, is so amazing, fun and adventurous. Sure, some people have challenging personalities, need a little self-improvement or simply are not for me but DATING! How can one be tired of dating?!?! I define “dating” or a “date” as the intentional time set aside to spend with someone I am drawn to on an emotional, sensual, physical, sexual, spiritual and/o...

June 1, 2016

Last year I went on a few dates with a man who identified as a Submissive in the BDSM world. As I thought about our possible dating adventures, I recoiled at the idea of a future with him. In discussing my "issues" with a friend, I was given a new lens by which to view submissive men. You should know that I'm constantly open to realizing my judgment and understanding needs critique, refinement, and growth. Sometimes my perspective needs a complete 180 or a deeper dive. Therefore, I was pleasantly surprised to shift my thoughts when it came to submissive men in the bedroom.

When I speak of a “submissive man,” in this context I’m referencing “submissive men” within the BDSM and/or Kinky and/or Fetish world. I’m talking your erotic escapades or sexual acts. I’m talking about when he consistently wants you to take charge in bed. I’m not talking about his personality as a man. He could be a...

February 27, 2016

Female Ejaculation: Can I do it?


Women can come violently, spastically, enduringly …but copiously?

Absolutely! The truth is approximately 20% of women have reported ejaculating in one form or another. Those who have felt the release, strongly recommend it.

My friends over at have come up with some suggestions to help those who want to explore the realm of ejaculation – the female way.


Put on the Pressure!

Most women report that their first experience of ejaculating came from stimulating the G Spot (the area of spongy tissue surrounding a woman’s urethra – It can be felt 2-3 inches on upper wall of vagina. Pressing and rubbing this spot causes it to swell leading to intense excitation, and orgasm. This is the most direct route to ejaculation.


The G-spot is easy to find when it is stimulated, but requires deep pressure to find it when un-stimulated. A firm, angled toy is often needed...

July 30, 2015



The Blowjob


There isn’t a man alive who wouldn’t sell his soul for an amazing blowjob. You may feel that you already have a killer head game, and I have no doubt you do, however you may read on and find a few tips that will help catapult your mic skills to new heights. My latest book “Dr.” Lee’s Ultimate Guide to a Rockstar Sexlife, gives you tools and tips you can use to enhance your sexual experience. If you’re a beginner, read the tips and choose two or three suggestions you would like to try. Remember not every tip, tool and technique is for you and will bring pleasure to your partner, so try them all and PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE.




Studies have proven that women who perform fellatio at least 2-3 times a week live a longer life. Now experts can’t determine whether it’s the act itself or the heartfelt enjoyment that leads to a longer life. I believe in the latter. I beli...

July 10, 2015

For the next 60 days I will be sharing a chapter a day of my first POP EROTICA novel.  Bang Bang Bang, A summer of sin in Brooklyn. 



Chapter Twenty Two



Max sat up on his couch.  His brain was buzzing.  Hangovers were not his thing.  He walked slowly to the fridge, got a pitcher of water and took it to the head.  He walked back to the couch and sat down, turned the television on hoping something really boring could put him out of his misery.       

   Everything seemed dreamy; he could not tell if he was asleep or awake.  There was a knock at his door.  “Who the hell could this be?”  He got up to check the door.  He was wearing a pair of white jockey shorts.  The only person he was expecting was Sophie, she should be heading home by this time but she had her keys so who could it be?

   He checked t...

July 9, 2015

For the next 60 days I will be sharing a chapter a day of my first POP EROTICA novel.  Bang Bang Bang, A summer of sin in Brooklyn. 



ChapterTwenty One


“Let’s do lunch tomorrow.”  A text landed on Max’s phone.  It was Amanda.

   “Where?” Max replied. 

   He did not want to meet her but he knew he had to sort out the details of their ongoing rendezvous.  The first time it happened he felt bad and he hated himself for it, but by the third time he knew he was a bastard.  It was not like she was forcing herself on him.  He could have said no. 

   “Meet me at the diner at Atlantic and Third.”

   “What time?”


   Max wondered what Amanda had up her sleeve.  For a moment he really wanted to know but then he thought about his boy Maurice.  “Damn, what kind of a person am I?” he thought to himself.  Then he had a weird t...

July 2, 2015


I like foreplay.

It feels good.

While a big, thick, throbbing dick pulsating in and out of my body feels good, its not a sustainable pleasure.

I know the friction enables release but after two minutes it does nothing for me.

So I need foreplay...

I need “during” play.....

I need AFTER play!


I don’t want you to touch my panties until I’m dripping wet. DON’T DARE.


Kiss every surface of my skin. You are discovering a new world. After or before you kiss me, touch every surface and/or lick every surface.

Use textures, temperatures, words and breathe.

My siren has to rise out. Can you move her? Can you command her and bid her near? She’s not located in my vagina. FIND HER.

Uncoil the kundalini inside me.

Don't even show yourself until I’m begging for you to be inside of me.

Make me beg and plead on bended knee.

Can you make me beg?

Make me seduce you and prove how much, how hard and how long I want you.



June 28, 2015

 Originally written in 2012 




He told me the movie “Secretary” was important to his life.

I promptly agreed to date him.


The conversations, the laughter, the meals are all of no consequence. Perhaps the only purpose to highlight it, would be that there was a connection.


He was quirky, eccentric, honest, straight forward with a very dirty minded streak. He kept inching closer to find my boundaries. He was giving and never turned down a chance to look me directly in the eye.


When given the option, “Do you want another drink, or….," ... I opted for the "or.”

Hours later, my hands and feet were in restraints, a rope pinned me down, a speculum was in my vagina and there was a bar between my legs.

There was also the multiple spankings throughout my entire body with the riding crop.

There was the choking. The slapping. The biting.

There were nipple clamps and another clamp on my clit.

I had NEVER...

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