There’s something you should know about me. I wholeheartedly embrace who I am as a goddess and a monster. I embrace the sacred and the profane. I embrace the sophisticated and the rachet. I, as a human being, as a woman, as a self described Siren, am not "one" type of person. I like mind blowing sex...that can involve making love or being fucked. I want it gentle and I want it hard. Shit, in the BDSM world, I’m even known as a Switch. (Google that or wait for those blog posts in the coming weeks!)
Therefore, in my holistic embodied way of living life, I’m constantly looking for ways to engage my spirit and my flesh. Hence, today's topic....this concept of “Chakra Sex.”
A while back I was reading two books. One was titled, “Wheels of Life: A User’s Guide to the Chakra System.” I don’t remember the name of the other book but it had to do with sacred spiritual sexuality. Both books had chapters on the concept of experiencing orgasms with all of your chakras activated & aligned with the kundalini uncoiled versus the “common orgasm” where simply the root chakra is activated.
Let’s take a moment to define these terms in my butchered perspective. You can read multitudes of books on each of these. However, I'm giving you just a quick overview.
Charka is a sanskrit word that translates to wheel or disk. In reference to the human experience, its regarding the wheels of energy that flow throughout the body. There are seven common chakras that start from the base of our spine through the crown of our heads. The chakras are wheels of energy. This energy is called Prana. Prana is vital life force.
According to Chopra.com, Chakras, “correspond to massive nerve centers in the body. Each of the seven main chakras contains bundles of nerves and major organs as well as our psychological, emotional, and spiritual states of being. Since everything is moving, it’s essential that our seven main chakras stay open, aligned, and fluid."
The Root Chakra is located at the base of your spine and is affiliated with safety and security. This chakra establishes your deep connection to your physical body, environment and the earth.
The Sacral Chakra is located in the pelvic area and is affiliated with passion and pleasure. This chakra is all about sexuality, relationships, creativity, sensuality and intimacy...to name a few.
The Kundalini is a primal energy, shakti, that is located coiled at the base of the spine. This energy can be uncoiled or "awakened" and lead to spiritual enlightenment. Sometimes its represented as a goddess or sleeping serpent. It can be awakened in many ways, often via deep meditation, enlightenment and bliss. The kundalini moves through the chakras in both directions.
Reading both books on experiencing orgasms with all of the chakras aligned was interesting, provocative and inspirational. While I am sure I have had orgasms that were “full bodied” in that way…..completely connected to everything…so much so that it felt like absolute waves of pleasure engulfed me and moved in energetic flows throughout my body……most of my orgasms, I think, have simply been good root & sacral charka orgasms.
I want all my chakras aligned when I experience sex. I want my kundalini uncoiled. I want the entire experience to feel so full of pleasure that I cannot tell where one orgasm began and the other ended.
I have had a few experiences where I believe I had "Chakra Sex" where they all were aligned and my kunalini uncoiled.
Once, during sex with a Dom I dated for a year. As his submissive, I often was fully enclothed in latex..including a latex cat suite and sometimes I even donned a gas mask. (I'll tell you that story later.) Because of the nature of my attire and the traditional gas mask, my breathing was altered and resulted in the need for more mindfulness and intention. My exhales took work and they were worth it. Once during our play and sex, he asked if I had had an orgasm. I wasn't sure of the answer. I simply said, "I felt waves of pleasure were running all over my body."
There was another time I felt this way. It was with an ex...when we were still together. There was this one we had sex... and maybe it was the position our bodies were in. Maybe it was the romantic, titillating date early that day. Maybe it was everything and nothing. But one of the orgasms that night was so intense, so ethereal, so deep that my entire body convulsed over and over again and it sent so many shivers throughout my entire body that goosebumps appeared on every surface of my skin. Every surface. Like maybe even my clit had goosebumps on its surface for a few minutes.
He felt the intensity of my body’s response, externally and internally. So much so that it shocked him as well. (It was seldom I could shock this Wolf.) It was glorious. To this day, he calls it "The Goosebump Orgasm." I remember it so intently. I remember how it felt like some spirit of energy was flowing through every bit of me and touching each bit of me with the perfect amount of pleasure. It was crazy.
I’m sure there are other examples too.
The point is this. I want more Chakra Sex. There's a time and a place for everything. Sometimes I want a quickie. Sometimes I was some fetish play intermingled with my sex. Sometimes I want a slow seduction with a prelude to the fuck. Sometimes I want a deep, dirty, gritty fuck with that good dick! And on occasion, perhaps more often than not, I want all my chakras to experience the pleasure and I want my kundalini to fully awaken. I want him to feel it too.
If we are being honest and intentional and mindful of what the human experience is all about, even in the fetish play or even in a quickie, if you are tuned into your body and your lover, you can experience "Chakra Sex." If you know how to ground yourself and align yourself, even that quickie can be a full bodied experience.
Again, this doesn’t negate the orgasms I’ve experienced before. It's not to say the orgasms were small. They range from tiny ones to ones so big that I scream FUCK over and over again and he becomes god. It's not the size or the intensity of the orgasm that I’m talking about. It is that activated, intentional alignment of energy. I want more of those.
Have you ever experienced what I'm referencing as "Chakra Sex" including a fully awakened "Kundalini Orgasm"? Tell me about it. I wanna all the juicy details.
Sheena LaShay is a Wild Magical Woman, Intellectual Sensual Shaman, and Creative Artist. She writes for SheenaLaShay.com, Owning Pink, Verizon Wireless, Bodybinds and is the Co-President of the Pole Dancing Bloggers Association.
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