How is your sexlife? REALLY, how is your sex life? Relationship coach Nikeema Lee has asked this question a million times, in one-on-one coaching or in an auditorium full of people hungry for excitement. Her latest book, Rockstar Sexlife, shows that she has delved into the lives of thousands and helped them turn the answer from a negative to a positive response. I know she can do the same for you through Dr. Lee's Ultimate Guide To A Rockstar Sexlife. Dr. Lee asks, has you

Leave a lingering scent for her..... For men and women when choosing a sexual partner, we discovered that above all other physical characteristics, women ranked a man's scent as the most important feature for determining whether she would be sexually interested in him.* How a man smelled was also much more important than any social status factor. And of all physical characteristics women preferred a man to be "better than average" in his body-odor than anything else. Women al

I've been asked about open relationships often as of late. It got me thinking about it. I'm currently in a monogamous relationship. I have been in open relationships in the past. An open relationship can work with the right people. Honesty, security & heaps of communication must be involved. I'm certainly far from an expert or experienced in this. Officially, I've only been in one relationship that was labelled as an open relationship. Those of you who are please comme

Simple rules to dressing like a gentleman. Always unbotton suit jacket when sitting down.

frank advise on how to run a small business Artist or business person? As an artist people ask me how I am able to survive as an artist. To survive as an artist you have to know how to run a business, the business of YOU. Yes, it is a very difficult thing for most ARTISTS to understand, but in order for you to be a full-time artist you MUST know how to make money from your art. So take a class on marketing, sign up for a few online business courses. The more you know abo

Have you ever felt like there just aren't enough hours in a day to do everything you need to do for your job or family, let alone workout? Check out my top 3 tips for how to add more hours to your day :).

Everything tends to inspire me. It could be a song, a color, a great novel, the scent of a man, the way water feels against my skin....and especially a wonderful, provocative or inspiring quote. If it pleases you, enjoy some of my favorites quotes on sensuality, sexuality, eroticism, pleasure and desire. Some people underestimate how EROTIC it is to be understood. ~ Mary Rakow in The Memory Room SEXUAL energy is the primal and creative energy of the universe. ~ Deepak Chopra

For the next 60 days I will be sharing a chapter a day of my first POP EROTICA novel. Bang Bang Bang, A summer of sin in Brooklyn. Chapter Ten They crawled out into the Brooklyn night. The humidity was a perfect, thick sheet of summer pressed down from the darkened sky. The night air was filled with desires and wants. Everyone they passed seemed to be on the prowl. They ran into a group of old friends and stood around for a few minutes talking about nothing. They also d

​​ There’s something you should know about me. I wholeheartedly embrace who I am as a goddess and a monster. I embrace the sacred and the profane. I embrace the sophisticated and the rachet. I, as a human being, as a woman, as a self described Siren, am not "one" type of person. I like mind blowing sex...that can involve making love or being fucked. I want it gentle and I want it hard. Shit, in the BDSM world, I’m even known as a Switch. (Google that or wait for those blog p

For the next 60 days I will be sharing a chapter a day of my first POP EROTICA novel. Bang Bang Bang, A summer of sin in Brooklyn. Chapter Nine Max was back at the Brooklyn Moon in less than five minutes. The evening was still young and there was a ton to catch up on and there were millions of drinks to be consumed, and God was somewhere watching. Max could still smell Amanda’s pussy on his fingertips. The memories of her heart shaped ass propped up on that couch st