One night, because my cycle wanted to fuck with me and I did not have any Instead Softcups and I just cannot fuck a man while blood is dripping down my vagina...screw whatever they say about using a "towel"....because what does that even mean. How does the towel even stay in place? Are people having easy, contained sex in one spot on their bed? Is it the largest towel in the world. My sex is wild. We end up off the bed and on counters and against walls and on the floor and....
Let me begin again.
One night, because my cycle wanted to fuck with me, I could not fuck my main lover. Instead, what we both did was fuck with his cock. For a long time. For such a long time that the thought of sucking anything the next day made my mouth hurt. Possibly because my mouth, jaw and tongue actually hurt from sucking, kissing, licking and touching his cock.
This is no complaint.
That particular night was possibly the longest time I’ve spent with my mouth and hands on a cock. I hope to break my record next time with him though.
What stands out the most are these things that I recall
The way he spoke to me as I sucked his cock. “Right there.” “Mmmmm.” “Suck harder.” “Keep doing that.” “Do what you were doing before.” “That feels good." I LOVE how vocal he is. There are no guessing games.
The tiny convulsions and throbbing his dick made deep in my mouth.
The way his body squirmed when touched or kissed or licked or sucked in just the right way.
My tongue playing with his head as he stroked his shaft. <-- Fucking hot!
The lip spanking his dick gave me. Yes, that's a thing. I found out on this particular night.
I actually learned more about hand jobs from watching him as we both laid in bed playing with his dick.
I think this should be done more between lovers. A night of exploration and not necessarily vaginal sex. Just a night where all she does is suck, lick, and kiss his dick. And the reverse. A night where all he does is find new ways to orally stimulate her clit or her back or her inner thighs.
You discover nuisances, subtleties and idiosyncratic tendencies of erotic pleasure you never would have before. From spending SO much time sucking his dick, I discovered the many different pressure points of sucking.
As I write this, I vacillate between the erotic enticement of this blow job and the educational value it served. The point is, one night I spent a very long time sucking his dick. It was one of the hottest moments between us thus far. Not THE hottest but one of them. My entire mouth was sore but his cock is so worth it!
Sheena LaShay is a Wild Magical Woman, Intellectual Sensual Shaman, and Creative Artist. She writes for SheenaLaShay.com, Owning Pink, Verizon Wireless, Bodybinds and is the Co-President of the Pole Dancing Bloggers Association.
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