"Dr." Lee's Top 3 Tips to Rockstar Blowjobs

The Blowjob

There isn’t a man alive who wouldn’t sell his soul for an amazing blowjob. You may feel that you already have a killer head game, and I have no doubt you do, however you may read on and find a few tips that will help catapult your mic skills to new heights. My latest book “Dr.” Lee’s Ultimate Guide to a Rockstar Sexlife, gives you tools and tips you can use to enhance your sexual experience. If you’re a beginner, read the tips and choose two or three suggestions you would like to try. Remember not every tip, tool and technique is for you and will bring pleasure to your partner, so try them all and PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE.

#1 GIVE HEAD

Studies have proven that women who perform fellatio at least 2-3 times a week live a longer life. Now experts can’t determine whether it’s the act itself or the heartfelt enjoyment that leads to a longer life. I believe in the latter. I believe that it’s the joy that women get from pleasing her man in such a way that it gives her satisfaction. Performing the act of fellatio regularly is not only beneficial for the woman but it also helps to enhance the relationship and bring couples together on a deeper intimate level more often.

#2 START SLOW

When you first encounter his penis, remember to move slowly. Take your time and get acquainted with it. With your hands, mouth and tongue, explore every inch of his stiffness. Run your tongue along his shaft, remembering to give a little eye contact in the process. This will help to maintain the intimate connection you are looking to build by doing this in the first place.

#3 BE CREATIVE

There is no exact play by play that you must do, so allow yourself to be swept away in the magic energy of your work. You are the painter and his penis is your canvas. Lick and suck your way to a masterpiece. Run your tongue along his shaft, noting the texture of each vein and bulge. Run your tongue along his testicles, placing them in your mouth and sucking them. Monitor his responses so you know what he likes without him even having to tell you. Try to move seamlessly from his shaft to the head of his penis. Make your movement effortless. Every man is different; the same man might love a gentle touch one night and may want you to bite his penis another…literally “bite my penis.” Don’t be afraid to try something new. If he likes it, his body will let you know. If he doesn’t, just pay attention and move on to something else

Blowjobs aren’t just for men’s pleasure. Many women say the feeling of control and power combined with the pleasure she can give is a complete turn on. So in order to find pleasure for both you and your partner ask him if receiving a blowjob is something he desires. Some men hold different beliefs on the act and you may have stumbled upon one that has no desire to have is flesh slurped up by your vacuum jaws. So instead of wasting your mouth mileage on someone who would otherwise not receive this oral pleasure, ask them what they want. Enjoy, Be safe, Much Love–Nikeema

Nikeema T. Lee, MS, Author, Intimate Relationship Coach, National Touring Artist and Certified Law of Attraction Guide. She is currently enrolled in a Ph.D. program getting her Doctorate in Holistic Counseling from the University of Sedona in Arizona.

Nikeema is on a national tour with the Pop Erotica Variety Stage Show “The Sweet Spot.” As an Intimate Relationship Coach, Nikeema delivers a high energy erotic education segment to audiences across the country. She serves as a guide to helping people find the road to intimate self-discovery.

“My ultimate goal is to assist people on how they can become mentally, spiritually and emotionally free so they can have a great physical relationship.” CLICK TO GET A COPY OF ROCKSTAR SEXLIFE